Functional IQ Essays

Consistency Isn’t Just About Discipline. It’s About Alignment
We’ve come to know consistency as the discipline of doing things on time, in order, with excellence. We call it routine. We attach it to productivity. We equate it with

Built to Be Liked or Called to Be Whole?
I was having a conversation not too long ago about social media. A young person was asking me why I strongly recommend that they stay out of social media at

When Your Body Becomes Your Brand: The Silent Erosion of Identity
We don’t talk enough about what happens when your body becomes the business. When your body is the brand, and your personality is the performance, you stop being a person.

The Tithe: God’s Economy of Compassion
Let me tell you something that’s been heavy on my heart for a while now. I’ve been sitting with this, praying through it, and honestly just watching. Watching how the

It’s Not the Tool. It’s the Mindset: Why the Church Must Trade Fear for Discernment in the Age of AI
A meme recently made its rounds online: “Your future doctor is using ChatGPT to pass med school—so now’s a good time to start looking after your own health.” At first

Not Every Trailblazer Is an Apostle: Let’s Talk About What Apostleship Really Means
There’s a growing trend I’ve noticed among entrepreneurial circles—especially in Christian spaces—where people are equating serial entrepreneurship with apostleship. If you’ve started multiple businesses, planted some churches, or oversee a

Stop Confusing Arguments with Fights—They’re Not the Same Thing
Let me guess—you hear the word argument, and your stomach twists. Maybe you grew up in a home where every disagreement turned into yelling, silent treatment, or door-slamming. So now,

Reciprocity in Relationships: When NOT to Pick Up That Phone
Let’s be real—some people only call when they need something. They disappear when you’re struggling, but the moment you have something they want—status, success, or connections—they suddenly “always believed in

Some of us weren’t taught boundaries—we were taught enmeshment and called it love, loyalty, or responsibility.
Especially if you grew up in a culture where your identity was tied to your community, your last name, or your family’s reputation, you were likely shaped by collectivist values.
